Finding romance on Lunar 15th Jan?!

My mum and granny were telling me that Lunar 15th (so-called Yuan Xiao Jie), those singles should go to temples to pray~ for romance... muahahaha well~ I don't really have the 'practice' to go temples, only if I'm accompany my mum to pray and I know nothing of such things or rather beliefs. Perhaps they really think I'm that 'old' enough to get a boyfriend fast or married me off asap... blah~~ actually I'm not that desperate to find a boyfriend but the more people nagging me to get 1, the more I'm worried and scared that I can't find 1 and really become a nun muahahaha... I guess my parents and my dear granny saw that my cousin and my neighbour cum ex-classmate got 1 ( both are the same age as me ), and wished I could get 1 soon. I feel like telling them that it doesn't mean that I must follow others right? I mean Romance is fated. U have to find the right time, right place and most important the right person! Of course I do have a crush but how would U know if that is the right person? haizzz...